Is Pregnancy a reason to get married?

Is Pregnancy a reason to get married? Well that will depend on a lot of things, however the most important factors are the relationship between the two people involved. It has nothing to do with how everyone else feels.

Once you decided to make the move to lie down and have unprotected premarital sex you decided that it was okay to be a single parent. There is no reason that the family has any say over what you do. Besides it wasn’t them who lay there with you to while you were having sex, so there is no reason they should have an ultimate deciding factor in your life.

Consider some things before you go saying “I do”. First when you and this person had sex was it because you were “in heat”, “in like” or:”in love”. Do you feel like it was just about sex and this was something that occurred from a night of hot lust or was it love.  Did he even look at you while he was inside of you, did you even consider that maybe he had that climax because he was feeling you or was he just feeling the warmth of your vagina? Not all “love making” is making love. Sometimes it just for the pure satisfaction of the flesh. Don’t be fooled by the outcome of an orgasm.

Some of us can get blinded by how good a man looks, smells, and his financial status or mesmerized by how “good it is”. However, take a step back and look at the entire situation and his entire self, along with looking at yourself, then ask; Am I ready to be married? And if so Do I want to be Married to THAT person. If the answers are unclear to you, talk it out, pray, find someone in that situation, are they happy? You have to marry for the right reasons. If the reason ship wasn’t good then neither will be the marriage.

Don’t waste your one and only life on being married to someone, whom will not bring you emotional joy.!  Marriage is for life in most cases and youdont want to spend the majority of your life wondering what you could have done. So deal with your reality, be a single parent until the right person comes into your life and loves you the way you should be loved. You can also get a “toy” and some batteries if its all about feeling good. Take care of yourself and love yourself.

~realtruthhurts, tiyona